Are You Wondering... How To Get My Ex back... But All
You Can Feel Is The Pain From Trying Everything In
Your Power, And It Seems Like "There’s A Long Rocky
Road To Getting Back With
Your Ex Partner"?
A breakup is a very emotional and painful thing to go
through. Probably all you want to do right now
is to curl up on the couch, eat ice cream, and feel sorry for yourself... And
honestly, who wouldn't!
In life, usually it is good to do
what your instincts tell you to do. Your "gut feeling"
is right most of the time, and if you follow it, you will be all
It is extremely important that
you decide on a solid plan right now. Before you are tempted to make a
bad move by instinct, and blow your chances in the process.
You will be tempted, no doubt about
However, this does not apply to breakup
This is the one time where your instincts are totally
WRONG... Believe me!
If you want to get your Ex back, you will have to act
completely different from what your heart tells you to
So stop what you are
doing for a moment.
Try to control your emotions, and take a few minutes
out of your Day to think about your life...
Three Ground Rules For Winning Your Ex Boyfriend Back
And I’m About To Hand You These
I have defined three ground rules that any girl should
follow if she wants to get her ex boyfriend back.
Of course every breakup situation is different. You
may feel like your situation is so different, that the "common rules" don't
apply to you.
Ground Rule One: Limit
One area where you need to be very strict with
yourself, is contact.
Whatever you do, don't harass your ex. This will
definitely drive him away from you. Instinctively you want to call him,
because you want things to get back to how they were between you
And to get back together, you first need to make
contact, right? Right..?
Wrong! Please, in your
heart you already know this..
Don't call him!
After a guy breaks up with you, he will regard your
repeated phone calls as "stalking" or "harassing" way sooner than you
And even more important: Since you are giving him
confirmation that you still think about him, he will not feel any pain of
This is definitely not helping
to get him back! So whatever you do, don't call him
unless you have your plan to win him back all laid out, more about that
If you have difficulty fighting
the urge to call him, then try to keep your focus on your goal:
Getting your boyfriend back in your arms!
Try the psychological exercise that we did before. Like with most things
in life, if you keep the end result in mind, it will just be so much
Ground Rule Two: Find Other Things To Focus
This may not seem like
much of a "how to get my Ex boyfriend back" tactic, but believe
me, it is actually a very powerful method! Let me explain:
If you can find a new hobby or
activity to dedicate some of your attention to, you
will have less time to miss your ex boyfriend.
Apart from that, you will regain the
feeling that you are in control of your life, and experiencing new and
Those two factors lead to something very valuable to
your goal... You will have more self confidence, and
that definitely shows... and your ex boyfriend will notice that
you have "moved on" with your life, or at least that you are not suffering full time because he is gone.
This works like a red rag on a bull for
Well so far the basics. I
hope you have learned that acting on instinct is a
very dangerous thing to do when you try to win your boyfriend back.
Now for one of my favorite "real
life" examples of how to get your ex boyfriend
Of course this method won't be useful to everyone, but
if you feel that it might suit your situation, I recommend you give it a
Ground Rule Three: Be
However heartbroken you feel, trust me, your ex
boyfriend is not going to want you back if you show him that you are miserable
You probably have the urge
to let him know just how terrible you feel, and how
much you miss him, so that he will feel.. ehm...
Feel what? Pity..?
A guy doesn't fall for a girl out of pity, ever!
You'd be amazed though, how many women try to use this
"tactic" to get an ex boyfriend back.
Please don't be one of
them! To get your ex boyfriend back, you will have to be confident
and strong! Girls, I can not stress this enough.
You’re Kidding, Right...
“Is it that easy?
Many Hearts Are Broken Every
And Many People Suffer In Vain.
A Brisk Flow Of Energies Will
Your Lover Back Into Your